You Don’t Own Me, I’m not one of your Many Toys – Genesis of a Dom #BDSM #Relationships

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Ownership is an interesting concept in this world. You can own many things land, a car, electrical appliances amongst other things but you can never own one thing. A slave in the fetish world is never truly owned by their Master, it’s a short term ownership and only to the boundaries the slave has set. A sub is never owned by their Dom it is a short term arrangement for the period of time they play or agree on but it doesn’t amount to ownership. I could go on with examples but truthfully no one person owns anyone we aren’t possessions to be bought or displayed.

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Marriage works the same a husband isn’t the possession of the wife and vice versa. A girlfriend is not the property of her boyfriend. Yet I have seen more and more everyday possessive behaviour by many in the BDSM and vanilla world. You should value the person you spend your time with and they should value you. None of this ‘he is mine’ or ‘she is mine’, you don’t own them. So let’s realise that the thing you have isn’t an ownership but a partnership where both parties bring something different to your agreed coupling.

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Victoria Blisse

Victoria Blisse is known as the Queen of Smut, Reverend to the kinky and is the Writer in Residence at Cocktails and Fuck Tales. She’s also an angel. Ask anyone. Mancunian Odd Duck, her northern English quirkiness shows through in all of her stories along with her own particular brand of humour and romance that bring laughs and warm fuzzies in equal measure. Passion, love and laughter fill her works, just as they fill her busy life.

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