“Hey, are you ready? We could go find a room if you want?”  Rio asked. We’d been sat together casually chatting for a while, our plans to play made earlier in the week over drinks and later social media.

“Yeah, sure.” I smiled widely.  I’d been working up the confidence to ask the same thing and was relieved he did it for me.

He picked up his large bag of twisted delights and I trotted happily behind him admiring his pert arse in the form fitting, shiny black trousers he was wearing. Snaking through corridors, the anticipation grew until we found a room with an open door.

I followed him through the door and sat down on the large padded bench in the centre of the room.

“Okay then,” He said, opening his bag and laying things out on the seat opposite the end of the bed like bench. A bedch? Anyway. He pulled out paddles, floggers, whips and restraints. And a sealed box.  “This is my collection. Is there anything you don’t want me to use?”

I shook my head. I’d seen everything as he’d pulled it out of the bag.

“No, I think they’re all fine. What’s in the box?” Curiosity killed the cat, I know. But I had to know, you know.

“My knives but I won’t get those out today, with it being our first scene together.”

“Alright,” I smiled, “maybe you can show me the shinies another time?”

“Sure,” he beamed. His bright smile melting my heart and other bits with the threat of joys to come. He put the box back into his bag, zipped it up and put it beneath the seat out of the way.

“So we’re doing impact play with maybe some restraints used, right. ?”

“Yeah,” He replied, “If that’s still okay with you?”

“Yes,” I nodded  forcefully, “but can we start without restraints? Until I know how you hit at least?”

“That’s fine. I’ll ask before I bring restraints into play.”

“Fabulous.” I smiled and kicked off my shoes.

“How are you feeling today? Is there anything I need to be aware of?”

“I’m doing alright today. Anxiety is in check, I’m just excited I think.” I giggled and blushed. “And I’ve got my inhalers here,” I pointed to where I’d put them on the bed. “I’ll let you know if I need them. I don’t think there’s anything else you need to be aware of.”

I lifted the hem of my sheer babydoll and pull it over my head, laying it on top of my shoes. I leave on the little thong. I can be spanked around my underwear.

“Oh and my no is always no.” I continue, smiling at him. “at least when I’m first playing with someone. So if I say no, nope, no more, stop or anything like that I mean it.”

“Okay, great. Will that mean the end of the scene?”

“Probably not,” I replied, “but we can talk about that when it happens.”

“Yeah, that’s fair. I’ll check in with you from time to time to make sure you’re okay. We’ll use traffic lights, okay?”

“Mmm hm,” I replied. “And you’ll ask before any kind of sexual touching, right?”

“Oh, of course.” He replied emphatically. “I have no plans there, but I do have condoms if we need. That’s all up to you, okay?”

“Yeah.” I impulsively leaned in to kiss him on the cheek. “I fancy you but I’m not sure I’m ready for that yet.”

“I know,” He replied, stroking a hand down my arm. “It’s fine. I’m happy to just beat the shit out of you.”

“Oh, you flirt.” I laughed and he joined in. “Now where do you want me?”

“Where do you want to start?” He asked.

“Back, butt and thighs seems like a good place to start.” I stretched out on the bed, stomach down, butt directed towards him.

“Good choice.” He growled.

I cheekily shook my behind in his direction.

Then yelped when his hand spalled down on my flesh.

“Cheeky.” He laughed, “Now stay still so I can beat you.”

“Yes, Sir!” I responded with another yelp. “Wait, are you okay with me calling you that?”

“If you want to,” Rio rested a hand on the bottom of my back. “I don’t mind.”

“Okay, Sir.” I gasped as he used his hands to warm up my buttocks and thighs.

“Want it harder?” He asked, after thoroughly spanking my skin to a softly stinging warmth.

“Yes please,” I groaned. “Harder, please.”

“Good girl,” He growled, “asking so nicely.”

The hits rained down harder than before and I didn’t regret my eagerness one bit, not even when he moved on to the different implements in his bag. After the leather paddle that made me squeal and squirm, Rio checked in, hand on my back, pretty brown eyes at my level.

“I’m good.” I smiled, “was getting to my tolerance with that paddle. Can I have something else now?”

“Sure,” He purred and the next impact on my skin was thin and stingy, the single tail biting into my flesh, sparking burning flames of focus in a warming fire of sensation.

It was the cane that broke me.

“No more!” I yelled. Rio stopped immediately and knelt at the side of the bed.

“Are you okay?”

“Yeah, yeah, I just need a break.”

“Would you like a hug?”

“Yes, please.” I shuffled over and Rio lay on the bed beside me, wrapping me up in a hug.

He gently stroked my back as I relaxed into him.

“You have such soft skin.” He murmured. “I really want to run my nails down your back.”

“Oh, please do.” I purred.

He scratched gently at first and as I arched into him harder, he increased the pressure.

“Are you ready to go on? We can just snuggle and wind down now if you want, though.”

“I’m ready for more.” I replied.

“Pain or pleasure?” He smiled.

“Both?” I purred.

“Oh, go on then.” He smirked, “since you asked so nicely.”

And boy, did he deliver.

 

I saw the No True Way prompt on the use of safewords And I thought I’d write a lil’ erotica on negotiating a first scene with someone.

It’s something we talk about so much because obviously establishing limits and boundaries is super important when indulging in kinky play. Most articles you read on it are rightly focused on the dos and don’ts and might leave you feeling that negotiation is a chore. I wanted to show that it doesn’t have to be the case.

If you want to read about some first time negotiations I’ve actually been involved in read 5 out of 5 Would let Beat again where you’ll see my approach to negotiation is similar to the fictitious one above!

And an article I’ve written on negotiating sexual and non-sexual kink scenes can be found on fetish.com

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