19th March 2012 - Guest Blogs - 2 Comments

Ann Mayburn -Don’t let BDSM Intimidate you.


Welcome Ann Mayburn as part of her blogtour today!

Don’t Let BDSM Intimidate You

To those unfamiliar with the BDSM lifestyle the first mention of those four letters brings to mind some guy beating the crap out of a woman or some man hating woman beating the crap out of a guy. While I’m sure that happens, it is so far from what the norm is in BDSM lifestyle that most practitioners laugh about it. Any asshole with a baseball bat can cause pain, that doesn’t make them a Dom(Dominant/Master/Mistress).

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In my short story, Sensation Play, I feature one of the gentler sides of BDSM, in this case, sensation play. ;) This type of fun involves invoking different types of sensations in your partner and making them highly attuned to both their body and what you are doing to them. Think silk scarves, feathers, ice, heat, etc. In my short story the leading man, Jonas, is a master of sensual torture and uses his skill to arouse and please Erica, a woman he’s been wanting to date for months. Here is ze blurb to get you a better idea of the story:

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Retired German cage fighter, Jonas Becker, has finally settled down in Las Vegas to open his own training center. A chance meeting with his dream woman at a charity ball leads him to hanging out at her favorite coffee shop where he overhears the perfect opportunity to win her over. One orgasm at a time.

Erica Alman is sick of her overprotective older brother’s ruining her love life, especially after they chased away that amazing mystery man that she had danced with a the charity ball six months ago. With the help of her best friend, she signs up with the 1 Night Stand dating service. Her request is simple. She wants a dangerous, rough man to fake break into her hotel room at the Castillo resort and force her to have multiple orgasms. Oh, and she wants the man to be big, bald, and have a German accent, just like Jonas.

Using every ounce of his skill as an experienced Dom, Jonas hopes to win Erica over before the night ends. He can only hope that the pleasure he can bring her would make the beautiful woman look past his scarred and battered exterior to the man within who can give her sensations like no other.

Let me say right now that I’m not one of those people that put hard rules and regulations on what I deem BDSM to be. For some people having their husband spank them on the bottom with a wooden spoon counts as extreme play, for others it would be foreplay. You are the only person inside of your head(hopefully) and only you can judge what is right for both yourself and your partner. I hope you’ll give my story a try, and more than that, I hope that you’ll consider incorporating a bit of sensation play into your own bedroom skills. Trust me, the orgasms are totally worth the initial embarrassment of walking into your bedroom with some velvet ropes and a glass of ice. ;)

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Ann is Queen of the Castle to her wonderful husband and three sons in the mountains of West Virginia. In her past lives she’s been an Import Broker, a Communications Specialist, a US Navy Civilian Contractor, a Bartender/Waitress, and an actor at the Michigan Renaissance Festival. She also spent a summer touring with the Grateful Dead-though she will deny to her children that it ever happened.

From a young age she’s been fascinated by myths and fairytales, and the romance that often was the center of the story. As Ann grew older and her hormones kicked in, she discovered trashy romance novels. Great at first, but she soon grew tired of the endless stories with a big wonderful emotional buildup to really short and crappy sex. Never a big fan of purple prose, throbbing spears of fleshy pleasure and wet honey pots make her giggle, she sought out books that gave the sex scenes in the story just as much detail and plot as everything else-without using cringe worthy euphemisms. This led her to the wonderful world of Erotic Romance, and she’s never looked back.

Now Ann spends her days trying to tune out cartoons playing in the background to get into her ‘sexy space’ and has learned to type one handed while soothing a cranky baby.

Website: http://www.annmayburn.com

2 responses to “Ann Mayburn -Don’t let BDSM Intimidate you.”

  1. I will say that the stories I have read in the past couple years have opened my eyes to new things, and I’ve incorporated many of them in the bedroom, and elsewhere. ;)

    All the best!

  2. W. Lynn says:

    Barbie should watch out for that wooden spoon and glass of ice. I had no idea Ken was into such things. :-)

    Great post Ann. I have to add this one to my collection as a reward. Whenever I read your books I get no work done. :-)

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