19th May 2016 - Genesis of a Dom - 16 Comments

Putting the Dom in Freedom by V Bruce #BDSM #Dominance #Event

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As a Dom I have seen and done a great many things. I’ve experienced great pleasure and given it in equal if not greater measure. But the key thing about being a Dom is always remembering you still have much to learn in many aspects. I chose the name Sensei as my fet name and it comes from my background.

This name denotes a master or teacher and as such I have tried to be both but as a great and wise sensei once told me the teacher who doesn’t see himself as still a student learns very little. We learn every time we play in BDSM, the areas of a body to influence whether with pain or pleasure, the limits a person can go to, what implements they enjoy having used on them and in what way even if it’s your hundredth time playing with the person you learn.
As a Dom you work to the limits given to you by the person but regularly it’s a good idea to sit and talk about expanding or discovering new and interesting fetishes or events.

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Recently I began an event called Bright Young Things (BYT) the aim to give under thirties a safe and friendly environment to explore their kinky side. After the first event I’ve worked out where improvement is needed but also come to appreciate the other kinksters around me. Two of which are Canis and Phoenix who are both similar age to myself. Now usually on occasions in the past several Doms in one place is a bad idea due to the nature of the beasts involved. But I have felt nothing but a shared respect and comradeship with these two. I look forward to many more events to come, All three of us have enjoyed our explorations so far. If you’d like to join us for BYT and are under the age of 30 we are holding the next one at Miss Ts in Stockport on the 11th June 12pm till 6pm. Check out the event details on Fetlife.

 

 Note from Victoria

Welcome back V, or should I say Sensei? We have missed you lots!

Smut UK will be at BYT with our world famous Erotic Tombola. 3 tickets for a £1 and you never know what sexy, kinky delights you might win. Hopefully we’ll see you there and tempt you to have a go at winning something from us. It’s an instant win too, no need to wait for a drawing!

 

16 responses to “Putting the Dom in Freedom by V Bruce #BDSM #Dominance #Event”

  1. Phaedra says:

    Great post, sharing.

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