2nd March 2017 - Genesis of a Dom - Leave a Comment

Genesis of a Dom – To Swing or Not to Swing. #BDSM #Kink


Swingers and kinksters, both viewed as abnormal by the Vanilla world, both attend some of the same venues and both often assumed to be one and the same.

Recently at play club, my submissive and I were playing with a Domme and glanced over to see an audience had gathered at the window. Now, etiquette in the fetish world means a great deal it’s the difference between a great play scene and a bad scene. Whilst this etiquette is learnt by the fetish scene and kinksters often the swinger scene is unaware of it. But also the fetish scene often is unaware of the rules and how the swinger scene works. In this instance we had wrapped up our play I was giving aftercare to my very spaced submissive but we still had a large number of people watching this put both myself and my sub on edge. When the scene is over the aftercare is very important you have to appreciate that as this is a delicate part of the play session. A little communication between the two scenes would probably do some good for all involved as then we’d know the rules and etiquette of being involved in each other’s scene.

Now to finish with I attend two venues that are primarily swingers venues and both of which I adore because of the chilled out atmosphere. Also I am friends with a large number of swingers who attend and they all know the fetish bunch are a different set completely. It’s been fun showing them the world we inhabit perhaps it’s time we did open up a bit more.

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